Sunday, 29 May 2016

Friends Forever


Thomas Aquinas

Friendship is the bond of love and care. Moments spend with friends are the treasure of life. They are the best memories to cherish for a lifetime. This relationship revolves around mutual trust, admiration and compatibility. Friends are savior and partners through thick and thin.

Busy schedules and hectic life styles leave us with very little time to interact with friends. Office work and home chores keeps me so pre-occupied that sometimes its days without any conversation with my friends. I am a real lazy person too. But the same is not true with my husband. He has a few very good friends, who not only connect on whatsApp but make time to meet in person whenever possible not at least ones a month. I really appreciate the way they have developed this relationship over time, their Yaari Dosti moments are full of live and energy. They are friends irrespective of good time or bad times. Such special bonds are hard to find.

This year in the month of November I received a very special gift from my husband. It was Saturday my weekly off and my husband was in office. I received a call from him and he asked me to meet him for lunch at the city mall. I got ready reached the mall and the moment I stepped into his favourite restaurant I got my biggest surprise, he had invited my childhood friend Dharti who had recently came from America to meet her mother. We hugged each other and tears of happiness rolled down my eyes. Done with the lunch my husband left for his office and we opened our hearts and souls to each other. We became buddies instantly though we were meeting after a long gap of 8 years. It was much satisfying and I felt so loved.

No matter how busy life remains guys just get up be in touch with your buddies and share a hug with your long lost friend, celebrate responsibly, nothing it more pleasant than this.

Friendship is sharing joy happiness, sadness and grief. We don’t have to explain our emotions to friends they know when we are happy and when we are sad. That day I realized that friendship is the basis of any relationship be it husband & wife. Love follows thereafte

Priceless Gift

I have always heard and read that life is a gift of God, live it well. It’s a beautiful creation of God, seeing a newborn coming out of a mother’s womb is something much more than any miracle. It’s a blessing.

Life is full of happiness and sadness. Pain, sorrow, smiles, laughter all go hand in hand.
Going through my morning newspaper, I read an article on organ donation and I was engulfed with some guilt and shame as I haven’t registered myself yet for this most important moral responsibility. I read further that parents of a three year old girl in Kerala donated her organs to a boy of five years, when she was declared brain dead by the doctors. How brave of her parents to take one such immediate decision of saving somebody else’s life, in spite of their own loss.

Lack of awareness I must say is still the hurdle in spreading the right message to the public, many people are still packed in the cage of stigma, wrong believes. I have heard people saying and believing that unnecessary cuts in a dead body made to take out the organs will lead to evil curse upon the family, the deceased person will find no place even in hell, or shall be reborn with deformities. How insane. There is no greater happiness in this world than the joy of giving. Care and share are the thumb rule to lead a fulfilling life. So many people die due to lack of healthy organs for transplanting.


We live our entire life for ourselves, our families, our friends, why can’t we be available for someone in need when we are ready to leave for heavenly abode. Just imagine, this is one such delightful feeling.

On this very day my husband and I pledge to donate every bit of our healthy organs, to the one in need.

Feeling determined and full of empathy I continue to hum my song of the day -…

 “Madhuban khushbu deta hai, saagar saawan deta hai
 Jina usaka jina hai, jo auro ko jivan deta hai
 Madhuban khushbu deta hai......

Save Water, Save Life


Save Water, Save Life

 May and June seems like the busiest month of my life,  deadlines to finish up MBA assignments, proceeding with exams of my third semester, targets and deadlines in office, some important family functions to attend along with that frequent  visits to my doctor, laboratories, is making me insane.

With all these activities going on in my life, leaving no time for me to sit and relax, I have been doing all possible effort to be productive most of the time. And in my endeavor to save every second of my life, I have been losing and wasting something very precious, irreparable and lifesaving. This is my self-introspection, analysis of my not so good and unproductive activities. Please read ahead.

Waking up hurriedly in morning and brushing my teeth, I had left the tap open; I could have used water in a mug.

Adding to my woes, the maid got sick with flu, had to give her a week’s leave. Washing the utensils early morning, in my habitual hurriedness I spilled extra water all over the slab and floor. Warning my maid always to be cautions with water, I used much more than required quantities of water.

Getting ready for the office I had left the tap open to fill up my bucket and went to iron my shirt and as I came back running, the bucket was overflowing with water.
Watering the plant in my terrace I overfilled the pots, not checking how much water they need.
I usually sit in my room with my laptop, television, tube light, fan, A.C in the power on mode and sometimes even leave the room without switching them off, though not always but I have noticed myself doing this last week.

These pointers make me think and re think – Am I a responsible citizen?  Am I practicing myself the good things that I preach?  The answer is ‘NO’. But I am a believer, with hopes, it’s never too late. But if we don’t realize and act now it’s actually going to be too late. At a very fast speed we are losing something most important and precious. i.e. Water. Many act of our day to day life contribute to this destruction. We work hard day and night all our life, in the end we shall leave behind a plush apartment with latest technology for our kids, grandkids, but will survival be possible for them with no water to drink?

Many places around the globe have started facing acute water shortage, and if we are fortunate enough to get sufficient water for our use, we should feel blessed and preserve, protect this most needed resource.

Education / Child labor

 

Education / Child labor


Pretty hand as soft as feather
Tiny feet as good as smiles
Twinkling eyes with dreams so high
My heart with hopes as true as love
Desires, energies to do some good
To hold the pen to scribble the book
To know the history for a better now
To learn, to grow and develop potential

But…..

Here I face the adversity of time

The shackles of poverty
And here I am

My hand smothered with dust and ash
My feet burnt and bruised so deep
My eyes in tears, I could barely see
Dumped desires and energy no more
I hold the mop and scribble on floor
My present is smudged and future is dark
Should I learn to accept this morbid reality?
“Or is the angel coming my way, to re kindle the flames of faith and belief?”

This short poem is dedicated to child labor, something very close to my heart. It pains to see small kids going on the wrong path, encouraged to begging, petty thefts due to lack of education and right guidance. Sight of a kid washing utensils, mopping and doing all sorts of labor instead of going to school is utterly unacceptable.

I am yearning to do something, in this field if you guys have any ideas or suggestions please share.

Saturday, 28 May 2016

The best way to educate children at home


The best way to educate children at home

Maybe you've wondered to yourself, what is the best way to educate children? In my opinion, if I have to answer it, then I say emphatically is on how the parents did the first setting for the early childhood development. This is because experience in childhood has always made ​​an impression and influence their development into an adult.

The first setting for the early childhood development that you should do is to build a good family environment for children. To realize this, of course, begins by fixing the attitude and behaviour of parents. Give a good role model to be emulated by the children. It is impossible if we want our children to be a good person but the behaviour of the parents do not either. If we are forced to impose on the child, then the child will feel pressured and stressed. This method will not work.

If the children are happy for us as parents, children definitely want to pay attention and listen to us. However, if an educator imposes its will, and harm their personalities because of the desire confrontation, then the educator's credibility will be broken in the eyes of the child. Remember, violence on educating children show that we have failed in educating children.

Love and compassion are the key to all the smoothness of all affairs. Not violence! And giving a good family environment to the children is the best way to educate children.

Children are the most beautiful gift God has given to us. For that we should be grateful in a way to give the best for them. Not only material needs, but also non-material needs such as education and counselling.

Many parents think that educating children were meant to transfer knowledge and nurture it. So that the parents send children's education only to school or other formal institutions. When in fact the essence of education, is not it. I think the essence of education is to build positive character and potential latent in a child that appears, and then raise and develop which then can be beneficial to himself, family, community, and country. And, I believe that the role is to do the task are the parents in the home because the intensity of the communication is mostly done between parent and child. However, it does not mean the school is not good for children's education.

Humans learn by imitating or copying of the natural surroundings or environment. As proof, you can know how early humans learned to hunt from the beast, with strong nails and fangs and sharp, the animal is able to subdue prey. Then, humans made device resembling a nail or a sharp and powerful fangs of rock or wood. The fact is humans are learning from the environment by imitating. Likewise, a child, he will learn how to mimic the environment in which he lives.

From the brief description above, it is clear that a good parent, must educate their children at home than send them to a formal school. Due to the fact, the positive character and potential latent in the person of a child was largely shaped by the circumstances that created the child by the parents at home. Instead of teaching children about school lessons, the most important is to offer a good role model for them imitate the good things from the environment

The importance Family Environment for Children's Education

The childhood experiences has a big influence in building children personality. There are essential to realizing formation of self intact, which could not be achieved except by giving full freedom to the child and foster independence soul. To fulfill this, family environment has a very important role for children's education. Because of through this activities, a child will get a large influence. Good family environment will have a sense of love and mutual help, which based on the strong bond between families, and has a large contribution in build a child's personality. It can motivate children to develop themselves and improve their capabilities and potential.

Meanwhile, when the family neglect their children, this condition give negative effects for a child personality. The loss sense of love and family causing bad result in education. They feel such neglected and abandoned, and hinder its ability to foster a sense of self-esteem that can benefit themselves and the community around it.

The right education is education that provides direction achieved a varieties objectives and activities. Motivate children achieved its objectives and carry out various activities, to drive him to success as well as providing a sense of confidence in him. Moreover, it can also provides an opportunity for him to showcase his personality also meet physical needs, psychological needs, and social needs. Finally he was able to blend in and adapt to other people.

Various research shows that training and educating children since childhood, giving a positive side to hone his personality and behavior. Like the wise people said: "Someone who seek knowledge since a child was like carve in a stone, and the person who study as mature was like those who wrote on water".

Parent's mistakes in educating children

Parents often use force and violence when the children make mistakes or do not obey their orders. Educational methods such as these cannot be accepted by the children.

Children do not like dictation and advice directly because of the way they perceive it as an attempt to turn their wishes. This is the parent's mistakes in educating children.

Attitude always blame the child, belittling opinion, and ignored can lead to fatal for children. If we are to give meaning or lesson to the children, then we should use a convincing manner, rather than using coercion and violence in providing advice and direction. Discussion and persuasive methods to attract the attention of children. The best way to educate children is to not hurt the child's personality.

How to Build an Honest in Children

Of course all parents want their children to have an honest nature. because of honesty like a medicine, even though it tastes bitter but it can cure a disease. Everyone must honest, all the problems of everyone's life will easy to resolve. But if a person's life is filled with lies, How then are we going to find the correct way to solve everything. it lies even misleading deeper life.

To foster honest in oneself, it should be done from the time when he or she was a child. With accustomed honest living from since childhood, then a child be able to feel the benefits of living honestly then the child willing to decide that he / she had to live with honesty, finally the honest always be attached to them until become an adult.


  • Want to know how to build an honest in children? follow the steps below that you can apply to your child at home:
  • Make sure that you always tell the truth.
  • Do not ever lie to your child even trivial. If you have lied to your child, then your credibility tarnished
  • Keep your word when you have promised them
  • Tell the story of the great hero who are honest to motivated at bedtime
  • Provide daily tasks appropriate to the children's ability to train honesty, responsibility and discipline, and do not scold them if your children do not do it. Give a gift if the children have managed to carry out daily tasks. Make a chart of children honesty to monitor progress
  • Pretend not to know if your child is lying and find the cause of why your child have to lie and then look for a way out.

Don't Do the Beating in Educating Children

Educational methods using a blow by an educator to educate children, is a sign that he had failed to find a suitable way to influence and improve the child's attitude.

An educator has been wrong if he believes that the methods of violence and beatings he can educate the next generation has responsibility. Due to such treatment, he actually had killed several elements force the most important child's personality. due to the beating action it would seem the people whose souls, as follows:
Coward. Children will always be afraid of his parents, which resulted in not going to create a harmonious relationship between them. Children will always try to stay away from the parents, They will scared and ran to their room when They saw their parents, and if their parents passed near them, They will shiver and bow.
Always in doubt. They did not have confidence, always in doubt, and do not have ability to decide the outcome. It will be obvious when adult.
Isolated and do not have ability to build relationships with others. They are a private person and insecure and lacks personality traits that stand out.
Recently, there is a scientific research conducted by the University of New Hampshire in the UK, stating that students who get a lot of beating, resulting in their ability to think, read, and calculate decline. While the students who never get a beating, get better results on the three areas above.

The importance parents full attention to the develop healthy mental children

Various studies results have suggested that differences in the level and type of care the parents of a child, having influence on the children mental development

The teenager unmet need for love and affection of their parents or parents who feel lost because of busy at work, so these kids have tendency be affected and rely on the their friends opinions to meet her emotional needs.

While the parents who showed his patience in educating their children, then their children will naturally develop the ability to face the challenges of life, and have ability to rely on himself.

Thus it is clear to the parents should give lots of attention to educate children because it will give good mental development for them, so that our children will not  affected by bad behavior from outside

Educate Children through Parents Behavior

Children tend to follow what he knew from the neighborhood. Family circumstances as the immediate environment should give good examples that deserve to be followed children voluntarily.

A child emulate and imitate the behavior of the person she liked, and trying to look like a man to her liking. It was a fact that must understand and cleverly exploited by the parents and teachers. Do not allow children to mimic the behavior exhibited crappy video games or movies that became his idol, because they love it. Try as much as possible so that parents and teachers can become an idol of children.

Educators used as exemplary role models for those who live around him, always consider all of his behavior and always heard his words, then he should consider his actions before giving advice and encouragement to those. So that appeals can accepted by others, especially children, the actions must match words. It is important to grow the perception and credibility of teachers and parents in their eyes.

We will not able to bring our children to stay away from friends who are not good, if we are friends with people who have properties such as our children's friends. Or we ordered them to independently work on their various necessities of life, while we rely on other people to do a job, and show the weakness and our inability in front of them.
We can close that educate children well should start with improving our behavior first

The importance Family Environment for Children's Education

The childhood experiences has a big influence in building children personality. There are essential to realizing formation of self intact, which could not be achieved except by giving full freedom to the child and foster independence soul. To fulfill this, family environment has a very important role for children's education. Because of through this activities, a child will get a large influence. Good family environment will have a sense of love and mutual help, which based on the strong bond between families, and has a large contribution in build a child's personality. It can motivate children to develop themselves and improve their capabilities and potential.

Meanwhile, when the family neglect their children, this condition give negative effects for a child personality. The loss sense of love and family causing bad result in education. They feel such neglected and abandoned, and hinder its ability to foster a sense of self-esteem that can benefit themselves and the community around it.

The right education is education that provides direction achieved a varieties objectives and activities. Motivate children achieved its objectives and carry out various activities, to drive him to success as well as providing a sense of confidence in him. Moreover, it can also provides an opportunity for him to showcase his personality also meet physical needs, psychological needs, and social needs. Finally he was able to blend in and adapt to other people.

Various research shows that training and educating children since childhood, giving a positive side to hone his personality and behavior. Like the wise people said: "Someone who seek knowledge since a child was like carve in a stone, and the person who study as mature was like those who wrote on water".

What Does It Mean to Educate the Whole Child?

Public schools in the United States today are under enormous pressure to show—through improved test scores—that they are providing every student with a thorough and efficient education. The stated intention of No Child Left Behind (NCLB) is to accomplish this goal and reverse years of failure to educate many of our inner-city and minority children. But even if we accept that the motives behind NCLB are benign, the law seems fatally flawed.
Some critics have declared NCLB an unfunded mandate because it makes costly demands without providing the resources to meet them. Others point to its bureaucratic complexity; its unattainable main goal (100 percent of students proficient in reading and math by 2014); its motivationally undesirable methods (threats, punishments, and pernicious comparisons); its overdependence on standardized tests; its demoralizing effects; and its corrupting influences on administrators, teachers, and students.
All these criticisms are important, but NCLB has a more fundamental problem: its failure to address, or even ask, the basic questions raised in this issue of Educational Leadership: What are the proper aims of education? How do public schools serve a democratic society? What does it mean to educate the whole child?

The Aims of Education

Every flourishing society has debated the aims of education. This debate cannot produce final answers, good for all times and all places, because the aims of education are tied to the nature and ideals of a particular society. But the aims promoted by NCLB are clearly far too narrow. Surely, we should demand more from our schools than to educate people to be proficient in reading and mathematics. Too many highly proficient people commit fraud, pursue paths to success marked by greed, and care little about how their actions affect the lives of others.
Some people argue that schools are best organized to accomplish academic goals and that we should charge other institutions with the task of pursuing the physical, moral, social, emotional, spiritual, and aesthetic aims that we associate with the whole child. The schools would do a better job, these people maintain, if they were freed to focus on the job for which they were established.
Those who make this argument have not considered the history of education. Public schools in the United States—as well as schools across different societies and historical eras—were established as much for moral and social reasons as for academic instruction. In his 1818 Report of the Commissioners for the University of Virginia, for example, Thomas Jefferson included in the “objects of primary education” such qualities as morals, understanding of duties to neighbors and country, knowledge of rights, and intelligence and faithfulness in social relations.
Periodically since then, education thinkers have described and analyzed the multiple aims of education. For example, the National Education Association listed seven aims in its 1918 report, Cardinal Principles of Secondary Education: (1) health; (2) command of the fundamental processes; (3) worthy home membership; (4) vocation; (5) citizenship; (6) worthy use of leisure; and (7) ethical character (Kliebard, 1995, p. 98). Later in the century, educators trying to revive the progressive tradition advocated open education, which aimed to encourage creativity, invention, cooperation, and democratic participation in the classroom and in lifelong learning (Silberman, 1973).
Recently, I have suggested another aim: happiness (Noddings, 2003). Great thinkers have associated happiness with such qualities as a rich intellectual life, rewarding human relationships, love of home and place, sound character, good parenting, spirituality, and a job that one loves. We incorporate this aim into education not only by helping our students understand the components of happiness but also by making classrooms genuinely happy places.
Few of these aims can be pursued directly, the way we attack behavioral objectives. Indeed, I dread the day when I will enter a classroom and find Happiness posted as an instructional objective. Although I may be able to state exactly what students should be able to do when it comes to adding fractions, I cannot make such specific statements about happiness, worthy home membership, use of leisure, or ethical character. These great aims are meant to guide our instructional decisions. They are meant to broaden our thinking—to remind us to ask why we have chosen certain curriculums, pedagogical methods, classroom arrangements, and learning objectives. They remind us, too, that students are whole persons—not mere collections of attributes, some to be addressed in one place and others to be addressed elsewhere.
In insisting that schools and other social institutions share responsibility for nurturing the whole child, I recognize that different institutions will have different emphases. Obviously, schools will take greater responsibility for teaching reading and arithmetic; medical clinics for health checkups and vaccinations; families for housing and clothing; and places of worship for spiritual instruction.
But needs cannot be rigidly compartmentalized. The massive human problems of society demand holistic treatment. For example, leading medical clinics are now working with lawyers and social workers to improve housing conditions for children and to enhance early childhood learning (Shipler, 2004). We know that healthy families do much more than feed and clothe their children. Similarly, schools must be concerned with the total development of children.

Democracy and Schools

A productive discussion of education's aims must acknowledge that schools are established to serve both individuals and the larger society. What does the society expect of its schools?
From the current policy debates about public education, one would think that U.S. society simply needs competent workers who will keep the nation competitive in the world market. But both history and common sense tell us that a democratic society expects much more: It wants graduates who exhibit sound character, have a social conscience, think critically, are willing to make commitments, and are aware of global problems (Soder, Goodlad, & McMannon, 2001).
In addition, a democratic society needs an education system that helps to sustain its democracy by developing thoughtful citizens who can make wise civic choices. By its very nature, as Dewey (1916) pointed out, a democratic society is continually changing—sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse—and it requires citizens who are willing to participate and competent enough to distinguish between the better and the worse.
If we base policy debate about education on a serious consideration of society's needs, we will ask thoughtful questions: What modes of discipline will best contribute to the development of sound character? What kinds of peer interactions might help students develop a social conscience? What topics and issues will foster critical thinking? What projects and extracurricular activities might call forth social and personal commitment? Should we assign the task of developing global awareness to social studies courses, or should we spread the responsibility throughout the entire curriculum (Noddings, 2005b)?
In planning education programs for a democratic society, we must use our understanding of the aims of education to explore these questions and many more. Unfortunately, public policy in the United States today concentrates on just one of the Cardinal Principles proposed by NEA in 1918: “command of the fundamental processes.” Although reading and math are important, we need to promote competence in these subjects while also promoting our other aims. Students can develop reading, writing, speaking, and mathematical skills as they plan and stage dramatic performances, design classroom murals, compose a school paper, and participate in establishing classroom rules.
If present reports about the effects of NCLB on the education of inner-city and minority children are supported by further evidence, we should be especially concerned about our democratic future. Wealthier students are enjoying a rich and varied curriculum and many opportunities to engage in the arts, whereas many of our less wealthy students spend their school days bent over worksheets in an effort to boost standardized test scores (Meier & Wood, 2004). Such reports call into question the notion that NCLB will improve schooling for our poorest students. Surely all students deserve rich educational experiences—experiences that will enable them to become active citizens in a democratic society.
Life in a healthy democracy requires participation, and students must begin to practice participation in our schools. Working together in small groups can furnish such practice, provided that the emphasis is consistently on working together—not on formal group processes or the final grade for a product. Similarly, students can participate in establishing the rules that will govern classroom conduct. It is not sufficient, and it may actually undermine our democracy, to concentrate on producing people who do well on standardized tests and who define success as getting a well-paid job. Democracy means more than voting and maintaining economic productivity, and life means more than making money and beating others to material goods.

The Whole Child

Most of us want to be treated as persons, not as the “sinus case in treatment room 3” or the “refund request on line 4.” But we live under the legacy of bureaucratic thought—the idea that every physical and social function should be assigned to its own institution. In the pursuit of efficiency, we have remade ourselves into a collection of discrete attributes and needs. This legacy is strong in medicine, law, social work, business, and education.
Even when educators recognize that students are whole persons, the temptation arises to describe the whole in terms of collective parts and to make sure that every aspect, part, or attribute is somehow “covered” in the curriculum. Children are moral beings; therefore, we must provide character education programs. Children are artistically inclined; therefore, we must provide art classes. Children's physical fitness is declining; therefore, we must provide physical education and nutrition classes. And then we complain that the curriculum is overloaded!
We should not retreat to a curriculum advisory committee and ask, “Now where should we fit this topic into the already overloaded curriculum?” Although we cannot discard all the fragmented subjects in our present school system and start from scratch, we can and should ask all teachers to stretch their subjects to meet the needs and interests of the whole child. Working within the present subject-centered curriculum, we can ask math and science teachers as well as English and social studies teachers to address moral, social, emotional, and aesthetic questions with respect and sensitivity when they arise (Simon, 2001). In high school math classes, we can discuss Descartes' proof of God's existence (is it flawed?); the social injustices and spiritual longing in Flatland, Edwin Abbott's 1884 novel about geometry; the logic and illogic in Alice's Adventures in Wonderland; and the wonders of numbers such as φ and π.
For the most part, discussions of moral and social issues should respond to students' expressed needs, but some prior planning can be useful, too. When a math teacher recites a poem or reads a biographical piece or a science fiction story, when she points to the beauty or elegance of a particular result, when she pauses to discuss the social nature of scientific work, students may begin to see connections—to see a whole person at work (Noddings, 2005a). Teachers can also look carefully at the subjects that students are required to learn and ask, “How can I include history, literature, science, mathematics, and the arts in my own lessons?” This inclusion would in itself relieve the awful sense of fragmentation that students experience.
The benefits of a more holistic perspective can also extend beyond the academic curriculum and apply to the school climate and the issue of safety and security. Schools often tackle this problem the way they tackle most problems, piece by piece: more surveillance cameras, more security guards, better metal detectors, more locks, shorter lunch periods, more rules. It seems like a dream to remember that most schools 40 years ago had no security guards, cameras, or metal detectors. And yet schools are not safer now than they were in the 1960s and 1970s. We need to ask why there has been a decline in security and how we should address the problem. Do we need more prisonlike measures, or is something fundamentally wrong with the entire school arrangement?
Almost certainly, the sense of community and trust in our schools has declined. Perhaps the most effective way to make our schools safer would be to restore this sense of trust. I am not suggesting that we get rid of all our security paraphernalia overnight, but rather that we ask what social arrangements might reduce the need for such measures. Smaller schools? Multiyear assignment of teachers and students? Class and school meetings to establish rules and discuss problems? Dedication to teaching the whole child in every class? Serious attention to the integration of subject matter? Gentle but persistent invitations to all students to participate? More opportunities to engage in the arts and in social projects? More encouragement to speak out with the assurance of being heard? More opportunities to work together? Less competition? Warmer hospitality for parents? More public forums on school issues? Reduction of test-induced stress? More opportunities for informal conversation? Expanding, not reducing, course offerings? Promoting the idea of fun and humor in learning? Educating teachers more broadly? All of the above?
We will not find the solution to problems of violence, alienation, ignorance, and unhappiness in increasing our security apparatus, imposing more tests, punishing schools for their failure to produce 100 percent proficiency, or demanding that teachers be knowledgeable in “the subjects they teach.” Instead, we must allow teachers and students to interact as whole persons, and we must develop policies that treat the school as a whole community. The future of both our children and our democracy depend on our moving in this direction.